Pleasure for yourself is still something that is talked about as embarrassing but sex relations experts say that enjoying yourself can be an important step in your life.
Dr Nomcebo Mthembu, a sex therapist and counselor in romantic relationships, says there is no kind of pleasure and pleasure that a person would not enjoy if he or she had sexual pleasure.
She says it is too late for people to be shy when they have to enjoy themselves, it should be a part of life rather than people going for a stroll and just relaxing for sex.
“There are many ways to satisfy yourself and there is no need for a woman or a man at that time.
“There are relaxing and relaxing activities that make one feel good and even enjoy themselves. Many people are not educated in these ways. Sometimes you can do that even when you are with your partner if they are not ready for sex or are not around when you need them. It helps to help the relationships you see at the time, ”explains Dr Mthembu.
She says that enjoying yourself is akin to using sex toys, or just using your hands.
It's important to know where to touch yourself to get that feeling of sexual satisfaction.
Some celebrities have even made it public and used sex toys for personal enjoyment.
The musician Moonchild, one of the celebrities recently revealed that he is no longer a sex toy.
Another singer, Wanda Baloyi, revealed that there was a time when she was on a romantic break, and said that using sex toys was what she did when she was feeling sexual.
Apart from the fact that relaxation keeps you going, Dr Mthembu says that massage also helps you to know your body. You also know which parts of the body you touch to reach the climax.
Experts say that people should be reluctant to enter sex toy stores and inquire about their needs.
Here are some tips to help you reach your peak when you are having sex with yourself:
* Wear your underwear that describes you, and put on a mirror that you will keep looking at while you masturbate.
* Find a list of songs that will be accompanied by romantic feelings that will run the blood well and you will be in gear. You can start playing and relaxing in a way that will make you crave sex.
* You can start slowly moving with emotions and using your fingers to massage them in the right places.
* To make it fun otherwise use toys to add fun.
* Whatever you do, be confident that what you do will be successful and will make you happy.
* Sleep and change styles as you both go, changing yourself and playing with your fingers.
* You can also use a pillow to hold it if you feel the need to hug someone.
* If your mood is slow, you can use porn or videos to help you, say you enjoy yourself and watch them.
Be careful not to get too familiar with the toys in such a way that it is impossible to live without them.
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